This replaces the
old one which was a little haphazard in composition. In general I like getting comments, and it's extremely rare that I reject or delete one. However, there are a few cases where I consider it appropriate to do so:
1) Being rude, insulting, condescending, hectoring, etc. I know this is common and even normal on the internet, but I won't put up with it here.
2) Going off-topic, including "
change-the-subject trolling" ("why are you writing about that trivial subject when here's something else which is more important", etc), and including the kind of thread hijacking via irrelevant side issues that happened
here.
3) Making threats. I
will report threats to the authorities if that seems appropriate, along with any personal info I can get hold of about the commenter.
4) Being contentious for the hell of it, including pursuing interminable back-and-forth arguments. This is a blog, not a debating forum. There are plenty of sites out there which
are debating forums, if that's what you're looking for. There are people who do this
with the intent of wasting a blogger's time and energy (
read this too if you have a political blog). I don't play that game.
My primary
reason for blogging is to attract the attention of people who have views and interests similar to mine. Arguing and bickering and debating don't interest me; they're pure drudgery to me and I'm not interested in engaging in them here.
5) Crackpottery and reality-denial -- I just don't have time for it. It would take a fairly long and scholarly post to comprehensively refute a
typical creationist claim, for example, and the person making the claim probably wouldn't be able to mentally process it anyway. There are books and websites out there already which address such claims. The same is true of global-warming denialism, "porn causes sex crimes", "homosexuality is abnormal", 9/11 conspiratardia, etc.
6) Bigotry and hatred toward gays, Jews, women, racial or ethnic groups, sex workers, atheists, etc. I will sometimes let a comment of that kind stand as a "these people really exist" object lesson, but in general this blog needs to be a "safe space" from such venom.
7) Meta-arguments about what I choose to write about or
not write about and how, etc, including this comments policy -- this boils down to "you should run your blog the way
I want, not the way
you want."
8) I absolutely do not allow comments that could be construed as supportive of transgender ideology. Trans trolls harassed me continuously for over two years, sometimes verging on threats. Anybody who wants to take their side can go do it somewhere else. Also not allowed are comments attacking Brexit, or supporting a military draft or compulsory national service. I am not obligated to provide a forum for views I find morally abhorrent.
9) Don't bother telling me that "person/site so-and-so, to which you linked approvingly, has said such-and-such Bad Things elsewhere". I don't care.
Finally, remember that there is no issue of censorship or freedom of expression here. You can start your own blog and say anything you want, and I neither have nor want the ability to stop you. This one is mine, though. As I've said before, freedom of expression means you can put a bumper sticker of your choosing on your car. It doesn't mean you can put that same bumper sticker on
my car, not unless I choose to let you.